Good Question: Your Brother’s Eye (March 1, 2026)

Summary

We find ourselves confronted with one of Jesus’ most uncomfortable yet transformative questions: Why do we look at the speck in someone else’s eye when there’s a beam of wood in our own? This question, asked not to religious outsiders but to disciples themselves, cuts to the heart of our spiritual journey. Through Luke chapter 6, we discover three unchanging spiritual laws that frame this piercing question. First, we reap what we sow—whether judgment and condemnation or forgiveness and grace. Second, we become who we follow, making it crucial that our eyes remain fixed on Jesus rather than on the faults of others. Third, we see where we look, meaning our focus determines what becomes visible to us. The message challenges us to prioritize personal sanctification over the spiritual inspection of others. By looking into God’s Word as an honest and healing mirror, and by leaning on the Holy Spirit who convicts us of sin, righteousness, and judgment, we can address the planks in our own eyes. This isn’t about never helping others grow; it’s about ensuring we’ve first allowed God to work deeply in our own hearts. Only then can we see clearly enough to genuinely help a brother or sister remove the speck from theirs.

Key Scripture – Read Luke 6:37-42

Key Takeaways

  • You reap what you sow – The measure you use will be measured back to you
  • You become who you follow – A fully trained disciple will be like their teacher
  • You see where you look – We must examine ourselves before trying to help others

Discussion Questions

The Three Spiritual Laws

1. You Reap What You Sow (Luke 6:37-38)

  • Jesus mentions four things: don’t judge, don’t condemn, forgive, and give. Which of these four is most challenging for you in your current relationships?
  • The sermon explained that “judge” means to form an opinion. How do we balance having biblical convictions while avoiding the kind of judging Jesus warns against?
  • Have you experienced a relationship where “sowing” judgment or condemnation was present? What would it look like to sow forgiveness and grace instead?

2. You Become Who You Follow (Luke 6:39-40)

  • The sermon stated, “Sin will blind you of your sin.” What does this mean practically? Can you think of an example?
  • Who or what are you following besides Jesus? (Social media influencers, cultural trends, certain friends, politics, etc.) Is this shaping you for the better or worse?
  • What does it look like practically to keep your eyes fixed on Jesus as your teacher this week?

3. You See Where You Look (Luke 6:41-42)

  • Why do you think it’s easier to spot flaws in others than in ourselves?
  • Andy mentioned the “red Toyota Camry” phenomenon where we see what we’re looking for. What are you currently “looking for” in others? What might you be missing in yourself?
  • Jesus doesn’t say we should never help others with their “specks.” What’s the proper order and process He gives us?

Scripture Reference

  1. Luke 6:20 – “Then looking up at his disciples, he said…”
  2. Luke 6:36 – “Be merciful as your heavenly father is merciful.”
  3. Luke 6:37-38 – “Do not judge, and you will not be judged. Do not condemn, and you will not be condemned. Forgive, and you will be forgiven. Give, and it will be given to you…”
  4. Luke 6:39-40 – “Can the blind guide the blind? Won’t they both fall into a pit? A disciple is not above his teacher…”
  5. Luke 6:41-42 – “Why do you look at the splinter in your brother’s eye, but don’t notice the beam of wood in your own eye?”
  6. Hebrews 4:12-13 – “For the word of God is living and effective and sharper than any double-edged sword…”
  7. John 16:8 – “When he comes, he will convict the world about sin, righteousness, and judgment.”